I am very conscious of the fact that nearly everything you read about online dating safety is directly targeted at women. As a woman I find this very disturbing, as men need to be concerned as well.
Liars, cheaters, perverts and weirdoes are not only “Male” it pains me to say that they can also be female.
You should always be extremely careful and not readily give out personal information to anyone until you get to know them very, very well. So many strangers want your information for all sorts of reasons. If you come across a person who is giving out personal information and asking others to do the same, alarm bells should be ringing, and a big red stop sign should appear in front of you flashing “don’t do it”.
You don’t know what they want to use this information for and as sure as spring comes before summer, you had better believe they will want to use it for “something” and that “something” will not be in your best interests.
Men, also, need to guard their real names, addresses, phone numbers, and place of employment, identity theft is ripe. Please do not give that information to anyone online until you are confident that they are who they say they are and that their intentions are honorable. Also think for a moment, why is that information necessary if you are only going to talk online for a while. Information like that should only be given if you’re in a “Relationship”.
Again as a woman I am ashamed to say, guys be very wary of women who seem too financially needy, if money is asked for and believe me, there are dozens of ways women can ask for money, cut the relationship off immediately. These women are not looking for love or even friendship….they are looking for financial help.
Two more things, before I finish this brief post – if a woman gives you a contact number but you cannot ever reach her at that number, beware… let the “Warning, Warning Bells starts to sound” plus f you always have to page them or text them and have them call you back, this could be a sign that what they are telling you is not the complete truth… …
A need to get married and insecurity are other signs men should be very wary
of. If the woman is pushing too hard for a commitment you aren’t ready to make, it might be a good time to head for the nearest exit.
Until Next Time.
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